Let us not forget that there was a 3rd incident that no one is talking about.
In reference to the following:
2.2.1.2
An athlete shall not strike an official, opponent, coach, or spectator or display gross misconduct before, during, or after an athletic event.
A wrestler from the host school punched a spectator in the side of the head after a verbal confrontation in the hallway that was initiated by the wrestler. He then confessed to the officer that took the assault complaint that he did in fact punch the spectator and didn't care about the consequences. This young man was not only allowed to continue in the tournament and, though he didn't receive one of the automatic bids, was seeded by the committee.
To sum up the weekend's events:
1) Athlete 1 drops an f-bomb out of frustration with himself not directed at his opponent (this time) or the official: Career over
2) Athlete 2 uses colorful language after launching his headgear that, on an amusing side note, flew threw the air and struck his coach in the privates. The language was directed at the official: Must sit out the first round of the states (according to the DIAA by-laws also is banned from participating in or being present at any event related activities prior to the round including weigh-ins (not sure how DIAA is going to get around that)) But may wrestle in the consolations.
3) Athlete 3 is accused of, charged with, and confessed to assault of a fan during the event. No consequences whatsoever.